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School Sex : How To Start Sex Education At Home As (Christian Parents)

It is awkward to discuss sex. even more so when we talk to our kids about it. It won't get any less terrible by talking about it while munching on a bowl of potato chips or a cup of Haagen Dazs. Then, just as you think you've finished with the most difficult part—"the birds and the bees"—your children start pelting you with questions like fireballs.

Most parents would enquire, "Can't the conversation wait?," because they are so unwelcomed to the questions. The fact is, though, that while the world is discussing sex, our children aren't becoming any younger. Which would you like for your children to learn from—their classmates or you, the parents, in the secure environment of your home?

While the second option would undoubtedly be your response, it's crucial to take your time explaining and reacting without first laying the proper groundwork. As believers, we are aware that sex education encompasses more than simply banning minors from engaging in sex prior to marriage. It goes well beyond that, though.

Here, we've compiled a few ideas to provide your much-needed parent-child sex education session the proper biblical foundation.

1. Everything starts in Genesis.

Before the discussion on sex begins, we must take our attention back to the Creation, the very beginning of gender and sexuality. As a result, "God created man in his own image, in his own likeness; He created him male and female" (Genesis 1:27). It is important to note that although each is made in God's image, male and female have distinct characteristics.

Nobody is flawed or incorrectly designed, according to Esther Kurniawati, a Christian counselor and psychology lecturer at UPH, who noted that God created our bodies for certain reasons. He created His offspring and gave each of us—male and female—the proper identity and specific function in order to carry out his lovely purpose for us here on earth. In this manner, kids to accept them with a grateful heart and to have a clear awareness of the gender role and identity that God has made them for.

2. God made sex as a celebration.

For those of us who were raised in Eastern cultures, discussing sex is considered taboo. If you can relate to this, you will recall all too well how your parents reprimanded you for watching a kissing scene on television while keeping your eyes open. Unfortunately, the conversation around sex has turned into a cautionary tale-filled narrative in many homes.

We need to turn our attention to God by pondering why God initially created sex in order to prevent going down this road. Teach them that "God saw all he had made, and it was very good" (NIV, Genesis 1:31). Explain to kids why God did what He did Having sex serves three purposes: to procreate, to show our unity with Christ, and to firstly unite man and woman's love in a marriage bond. The third point may need to wait till the kids are old enough to understand it fully.

One lovely quote from an article in The Gospel Coalition is relevant to the Bible verse above. God created sex for our enjoyment and for our benefit, therefore we celebrate it, it read. In other words, as sex is a celebration that God made, it is sacred and lovely.

3. Timing.

Sexual urges would normally develop in youngsters as they get older. Parents should emphasize timing at this point. God not only created sex but also established rules for how to engage in it, with sex being a marriage-only activity. Parents should exercise caution while conveying the message. Explain that God wants us to reserve our time for Him rather than filling it with commands like "Don't become pregnant!" or "Pre-marital sex will wreck your future." elucidate God's desire for us to save some of ourselves for a certain someone in the future. In this way, kids will understand the profundity of sex and marriage and eventually retain their sexual integrity until they are prepared to enter the holy union of marriage with someone they love.

4. Because He loves us, God has created a standard for sex.

Christian parents today face a great problem in trying to protect their children in a time where sex has turned into a commodity and is used as entertainment on the internet and in the media. The way that sex, gender, and sexuality are taught in the world is distorted. Sex before marriage is now accepted, and homosexuality is pervasive.

Children should be reminded that everyone is a sinner and that everyone in the world is a sinner, which is why we need the Lord to restore our paths. According to 1 Corinthians 6:13 (NIV), "The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord is the use of the body 

It's a terrific chance to reiterate God's standards for sex to them. Because He is the all-knowing Creator of the heavens and the earth, He has created this standard not to constrain His children but rather because He loves us and knows what is best for us. The way we as God's children respond to this is by carrying out His commands.

The only thing left to do after learning about the biblical basis for sex education for our kids is to start the dialogue. The recipe is rather straightforward: cultivate an atmosphere of honesty and trust with youngsters by having a constructive dialogue about sex. Do not feel embarrassed to talk about sex, gender, and sexuality in public.

Children who grow up in families where sexuality is openly discussed are not only healthier and happier, but they also postpone participation in a range of risky behaviors, including sexual activity, according to Deborah Ruffman, an expert on teen sexuality and the author of Talk to Me First: Everything You Need to Know to Become Your Kids' "Go-To" Person About Sex.

You can engage the younger children in conversation by responding to their inquiries about the distinctions between boys and girls, depending on their age. You can allay pre-teens' concerns about unsuitable TV advertisements by providing information. Always begin the dialogue while a child is a young age. Maintain the rapport you establish with your kids as it grows. When your kids repeatedly ask, It shows that they are at ease bringing up such subjects with their parents.

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   An Inclusive Teenage Guide to Relationships and Sex

Sex Ed: An Inclusive Teenage Guide to Sex and Relationships was written by the School of Sexuality Education. By that time, we had been conducting sex and relationship education workshops in schools for a number of years, and we wanted to make the most of all the knowledge we had acquired. We determined that the best way to do that would be to co-write a book that students around the nation could access, regardless of who they were or where they were.

Our team, which consists of physicians, educators, activists, and academics, believed that it was crucial to include many various viewpoints and voices in the book, both in terms of expertise and the particular mixes of life experiences that make each of us individuals. As a result, it was truly a team effort, and we are proud of it, to be honest! The outcome, in our opinion, is an encouraging, useful, and powerful manual for teenagers that addresses challenging subjects in an accepting and nonjudgmental manner.

Each of the nine chapters—consent, gender, sexuality and identity, relationships, the body, what is sex?, reproductive health, sexual health, body image, and online life—concentrates on a different one of those complex subjects. We hope to address the concerns that young people—people of all ages, really—might not feel comfortable raising elsewhere.

We also included a few more sections in addition to the chapter's primary text. One of these is the "myth vs truth" boxes, which offer factual data to refute some of the widespread "myths" about sex and relationships that frequently surface in the classroom. Additionally, there are "did you know?" boxes that reveal amusing or intriguing facts, "tips and tricks" sections, and "consider" boxes that provide additional information to aid readers in seeing the "larger picture." Last but not least, each chapter also includes a variety of "unembarrassable moments" when various team members relate anecdotes about their own personal experiences to tie the knowledge to some real-life situations and demonstrate that we are truly invulnerable!

The book is crammed with information due to the variety of themes and features it covers, yet readers aren't expected to absorb everything at once. Teenagers can read the chapters in whatever order they like, or they can simply skim the different sections until they find something they're interested in. It really is for anybody and everyone, so we've included some comments in the back for teachers and parents in case they wish to use the book to initiate dialogues with the young people in their lives.

We hoped that Sex Ed could be used as a planning and teaching tool when we wrote the note for teachers, so we're thrilled that several teachers have already expressed their appreciation for its value in helping them to clarify information, spark discussion, and determine the best way to frame concepts. In response to this positive feedback, we are currently attempting to get at least one copy into each school library in the UK. This will not only benefit more teachers, but it will also provide every youngster in the nation access to the crucial knowledge the book contains, giving them the chance to comprehend themselves, their relationships, and one another better.

Given the lofty goal of having Sex Ed in every UK school, we are raising money through crowdfunding to send copies of the book to 1,000 schools by the end of 2022. Please click on this link for further details if you're interested in helping us accomplish this.

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